It is not within my nature to shy away from questions that are uncomfortable or hard. That is the scientist in me. I have always been a supporter of extended reality technologies in learning, augmented reality, virtual reality, and mixed reality. I have presented at many conferences across the country and out of the country on their benefits to classrooms. However, it is impossible to have a thing that benefits only. I began to wonder what downsides these technologies could have, not just on classrooms but human society at large. I become aware of a project in South Korea that reunited a mother with her dead daughter via virtual reality technology. This project was the catalyst. I wanted to know the potential benefits and potentials harms the technology could have.